Your Guide to Choosing a Condom
By Casey Law (she/her), 17, Staff Writer
Originally Published: September 25, 2024
Revised: September 25, 2024
Hey! When’s the last time you thought about condoms? Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis have unfortunately been on the rise in teens and young adults. And one of the best ways to prevent STIs? Condoms.
Did you know that the only contraceptive that helps prevent both STIs and unintended pregnancy is the condom? Whether or not you have a penis, you should know about them.
Let’s celebrate the diverse assortment of condoms that are available!
STI Transmission
It’s important that we learn about condoms so we can properly protect ourselves from STIs like HIV, gonorrhea and chlamydia, which can be transmitted through oral, anal and vaginal sex.
Knowing about condoms and how to use them can allow us to take more control over our sexual health and engage in sexual activity more safely and confidently.
Some STIs—like HPV and herpes—can be transmitted via skin-to-skin contact (although getting the HPV vaccine will protect you from the most harmful strains and taking medication as prescribed if you have herpes can reduce any chances of transmitting it). While there is no way to completely avoid some STIs during this kind of contact, condoms can help reduce transmission, since they act as a barrier.
Knowing about condoms and how to use them can allow us to take more control over our sexual health and engage in sexual activity more safely and confidently. Schools may only cover classic latex condoms, so it can be overwhelming to see all the options when considering which condom to use. Sex should be safer, but also fun. And these days, there are many ways to get creative with different condoms.
Prior to Purchasing
To ensure optimal use, before purchasing any condom you should consider sizing, your preferences, your partner’s preferences and any potential allergies or sensitivities.
You can measure penis length and girth (the measurement around the penis) to determine size. The condom should be snug around the base of the penis and provide full coverage. If you have any potential food or skin sensitivities, make sure to read the labels on the condom packaging before purchasing.
Once you’ve completed the investigation phase, you should be ready to choose your condom!
The Classic One
Latex condoms are the most common type. Rubber latex is a stretchy material that allows condoms to be form-fitting and durable. Latex condoms range from about two to six dollars per box of three. These are the perfect match for you if you don’t have a latex allergy.
The Alternative One
For those with a latex allergy, non-latex condoms made out of polyurethane or polyisoprene provide an equally safe alternative. Some condoms are also made out of lambskin, but this porous material does not prevent transmission of STIs.
It’s important to note that non-latex condoms do not stretch as easily as latex condoms, making them more susceptible to slipping and breaking, so finding the right size is especially important.
Polyisoprene is stretchier and softer than polyurethane. Polyurethane condoms tend to be thinner and also odorless.
The Sweet One
Flavored condoms are specifically made for oral sex. They prevent the transmission of STIs. They should not be used for vaginal or anal sex (the added ingredients that make them flavored can also lead to irritation or a yeast infection).
These condoms come in various flavors and colors. Always read the ingredients before purchasing because of potential food or material sensitivities. Some are even labeled as vegan or gluten-free.
The Extra One
Ribbed condoms have raised ridges or dots on the outside that help enhance sensitivity. One thing to be cautious of is any potential irritation that may occur from the added friction, which is easily avoidable with the addition of a water-based lubricant. Oil-based lubricants like lotion should not be used with any latex or polyisoprene condoms as they can wear down the material, leading to breakage.
The Slim One
Let’s discuss ultra-thin condoms. Have you ever heard that thinner condoms can break more easily? Well, fear not—they function just as well as any other condom! Ultra-thin condoms have been said to said to provide a more “skin-to-skin” feel, while still functioning as a barrier.
The Bright One
Glow-in-the-dark condoms can add some fun to the mix! They meet the safety standards of any other condom. The only difference is that they include a non-toxic pigment which gives them a bright glow for up to 30 minutes.
The Internal One
Last but not least! Internal (sometimes called “female”) condoms can be inserted into a vagina or anus and prevent the transmission of STIs and unintended pregnancy.
When used perfectly, internal condoms are 95 percent effective. However, with typical use, they are 79 percent effective. To contrast, external condoms are 98 percent effective with perfect use and 84 percent effective with typical use.
To use them perfectly, make sure you follow instructions like the ones here from the Centers for Disease Control. Internal condoms are made out of a nitrile outer ring and a polyurethane inner ring, making them safe for people with latex allergies.
Some Final Words of Wisdom
No matter what condom you end up choosing, always be responsible by checking the expiration date, following instructions about proper storage, using a water-based lubrication as needed and more. Check out this list.
There you go! There are lots of options to choose from when purchasing a condom. You can play it cool with classic latex or keep things light with glow-in-the-dark. All of these choices are proof that safer sex doesn’t have to be boring!
Check out our condom game to make sure you know the steps to putting one on!
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