People who identify as lesbian, gay, bi or heterosexual can give and express pleasure in many ways. There isn’t just…Read FAQ »
Heterosexual, lesbian, gay and bisexual are all sexual orientations. Sexual orientation refers to our inner sense of ourselves and to whom we’re emotionally, romantically, physically and sexually attracted. People who are lesbian or gay are attracted to people of their same gender. This includes men who are attracted to men and women who are attracted to women. People who are bisexual people can feel attracted to people of more than one gender.
The term queer can sometimes apply to someone who is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender. Some people call themselves queer, but not everyone feels comfortable with that term because it has sometimes been used as an insult against LGBTQ people.
Transgender is different from lesbian, gay and bisexual. Though these terms are often grouped together under LGBTQ, transgender is actually a gender identity, not a sexual orientation.
Gender identity is our innermost sense of whether we feel like we’re a guy, a girl or someone else altogether. Our feelings about our gender identity often match up with the bodies we have. Someone who has a penis and testicles may close his eyes and think, “Yep, I’m a guy!” and someone who has a vagina and ovaries may close her eyes and think, “Yep, I’m a girl!” But sometimes our feelings and our bodies don’t match. When our feelings about our gender doesn’t match our body, that’s called being transgender.
Transgender people can be any sexual orientation, just like people who aren’t transgender can be any sexual orientation.
Some people are very sure about their sexual orientation and gender identity. They may know early on in their lives that they are heterosexual, gay, lesbian or bisexual. They may know clearly that they’re a guy, a girl or that their feelings about their gender don’t match their bodies.
I’m lesbian, gay or bisexual. Should I tell my parent(s)/guardian(s)? How do you think they’ll react?
This is a tough decision to make and, ultimately, only you will know if and when you should tell your parents. But Parents,…Read FAQ »