Absolutely. You need to do what is right for you, no matter what you’ve done in the past.
When it comes to sex, part of the decision-making process is evaluating the decision after it happens. Some people realize that, for whatever reason, they weren’t ready for a sexual relationship. You are entitled to decide whether you want to have sex, even if you’ve had sex with your partner, or another one, before. You can change your mind, and your partner must respect your choice.
The bottom line is it doesn’t matter if you’ve never had sex, done it 10 times or 100 times; you still get to decide each and every time whether sex is what you really want.
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