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My partner and I had sex, but now I’m not sure I want to keep having sex. Is it OK to say no?

Absolutely. You need to do what is right for you, no matter what you’ve done in the past.

When it comes to sex, part of the decision-making process is evaluating the decision after it happens. Some people realize that, for whatever reason, they weren’t ready for a sexual relationship. You are entitled to decide whether you want to have sex, even if you’ve had sex with your partner already, or someone else before. You have the right to change your mind at any moment, even right before or right in the middle of having sex, and your partner must respect your choice.

The bottom line is it doesn’t matter if you’ve never had sex, done it 10 times or 100 times; you still get to decide—each and every time—whether sex is what you really want.

Is it rape if…?

If someone forces or pressures you (physically or otherwise) into any kind of sexual activity—after you’ve said no…

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