If you had vaginal, oral or anal sex without using a barrier method, such as a condom or dental dam, you could have been exposed to an STD with each act. There’s one way of knowing for sure whether you have an STD: get tested. Find a clinic near you. And find out how to talk to your partner.
If you do end up testing positive for an STD, know that you are not alone. It can be helpful to get more information about it so you can know the facts before you talk to anyone else about it. Your doctor, another health care provider or the person who tested you can often be a good person to talk to about any questions you have. Sometimes people need time to get used to the news themselves before they feel comfortable talking about it with another person.