Seventeen-year-old Bennett (Ben) O’Brien knew ghosts existed when his phone charger ominously “teleported” from the pillow in his bedroom to his brother’s room. Then again, Ben’s belief in the paranormal may have stemmed from reading his favorite series Harry Potter multiple times. But, don’t get me wrong—these days, Ben doesn’t have much free time to read. As part of his activity-packed schedule, Ben choreographs shows and organizes performance-based games as president of his school’s improvisation club. A natural-born athlete, Ben also plays soccer and golf. Ben’s love of sports even led him to begin his very own Spikeball club, which he describes as “on-the-ground volleyball.” A jack-of-all-trades, Ben decided to join the Sex, Etc. staff because he believes there is a better way to teach sexuality education than just preaching abstinence.