While you’re answering my questions, I was hoping we could talk about something. It’s been on my mind for a while, and I really want to discuss it with you. I’m not sure if you can guarantee confidentiality, but right now I need to know that what we talk about is private.

I’ve been dating the same person for a little while now. Well, I’ve started wondering if I might be ready for sex. I wanted to talk to you about it, since we’re not sure we’re ready for sex. But before we make any decisions, I want to make sure that we have all of the information we need about preventing pregnancy and/or STDs. Do you have any advice?

I was hoping we could talk about something. It’s been on my mind for a while, and I really want to discuss it with you. I’m not sure if you can guarantee confidentiality, but right now I need to know what we talk about is private.

I’ve been dating the same person for a little while now, and we’ve decided we’re ready to have sex. I wanted to talk with you first though because I want to make sure that we have all of the information we need to prevent pregnancy and/or STDs. I also thought you might have some advice.

My partner and I have already discussed safer sex and/or birth control. We’ve decided to go get tested for STDs together, and we’ve already discussed how we feel about everything. But we still need some more information about safer sex and how to use a condom, where we can get tested and/or how we can prevent pregnancy with hormonal birth control. Can we talk about this?